Dating Advise

I like to share something about people's advise..
I like to think as I am the kind of person who eventually will listen to advise. Of course I wouldn't show it. I will act defensive and point out my view..But at the end of the day, back in my room or while driving..I will analyzed all the advise and put it in action.

So, Iv been advised by so many people and so many things.. Because they love me and because the content is TRUE!
Some of the points that I believe affected me much are:

1. Never give up and lose hope. Love wont find u by it self. Do some extra effort or out of normal thing that u do. So i tried the dating apps and opened my eyes while having my coffee at Coffee Bean.

2. U will bump into the kind of guy based on how u live ur life. If ur still living in 'zaman jahiliah' then u will always bump into bastards. So i quit few things and start something, but i still went to have fun with my girls. Then the better guys start coming in, even they didnt last long.. until it is 'his' turn ;)

3. Read and believe the books! Really it guides u! There might be some info that not suited with our culture and religion, but the morale parts matter. I did follow some of the guides like 'think like a man' and respect is the most important thing in relationship. Seriously i never thought respect will play as a main role. But then it did lessen the arguments, the worries and the doubt.

4. Listen to ur girlfriends judgement. They see what u dont wanna see. Trust them.

5. Dont aim tooooooo high. Unless u are supermodel or something. But still, even if u are, it wont mean a thing if u cant cook, dependent, senang cita , have u watched the America next top model? Yes exactly. I think pretty girls have the most flaws.

6. Doa to Allah. I always believe the last part of our prayer is the magical part. I feel that god did answer some of my prayers if we wholeheartedly asked. :)

Fuck up.

One situation that could hurt me:

When u all ears to someone problem and tried the best to act caring and sincerely did it.

BUT

When it come to your turn, that someone never care.

Now u get why i hate to be a good listener?

So fuck up.

The day he proposed

4th January 2014

It all started with a perfect kisses. Like we always did everytime he hop inside my car at the bus station.

And the sweet day begin..

We spend the day watching movie and snuggle and cuddle.. Full with hugs and kisses.

Until our stomach ring the alarm and we heade to the ridiculous overpriced and unworthy chicken rice in Bukit Bintang.

Both of us were complaining.

Time for dinner!!

I put my mascara and hot red lipstick on. Struggling put on the fake eyelash 

(which was the most time consuming)

And he was there. Watching me get ready. Act like an expert commenting my wear off fake eyelash. He is such a girly in that way. He used to put makeup on me once and turn out not that bad!! 

Weird sayang..

I slip into my bareback dress. And he look at me in awe. Compliment non stop as he always do. Say how comel and beautiful i am when i was cautious with my bulging belly. Hug me from behind and sniffing like a pet..

The food was awesome!

Every little bit about the dinner was perfect.

With the right ambience and soothing music. Handsome guy in front of me with his manly hand gripping mine.

Then he started with words that hes been trying and practising to put in one beautiful speech. Apparently he did. Because the moment he finished, all my doubt gone with the wind. All questions on uncertainty slip away and replaced by his convincing words.

He took off my HnM 3 links rings and took only the gold ring band.

And he put the ring on it-beyonce

Haha yea he did.

The next moment will be the most unforgettable moment in my life time.

We look and lost into each other for like half a minute.. Smiling :)

We even dreaming bout our son's features!! The only part from me was my cheek. Yea.

And we talked more about our future planning and seriously talk on setting the 'merisik' part.

And we were soo happy.

Kissing again.

Im no longer a pathetic single phariah.

Its 2014!!

I feel like my prayers has been answered by Allah s.w.t.
I think 2014 is gonna be a lovely year that will be filled with full of loves. I believe I have found a reliable, faithful and lovely man.
Heading to the every woman's dream is such a new and exciting experience for me. I never thought that I will be able to tolerate with a man and even worse he made me realize that i am egoist and stubborn.. and it did open my mind to think about it.

And its gonna be an overwhelming working journey, InshaAllah. Really looking forward for an expatriate opprtunity ;) ..It will be such a valuable and money booster experience. 

Even my frustration towards the cost of living become greater, there's nothing much I can do more, except creating awareness to other ignorant people and eventually could put some weight on those stupid decision makers.

Well, thats about it.
It was okay so far.. and hoping for a better journey.
Happy New Year!!