Dating Advise

I like to share something about people's advise..
I like to think as I am the kind of person who eventually will listen to advise. Of course I wouldn't show it. I will act defensive and point out my view..But at the end of the day, back in my room or while driving..I will analyzed all the advise and put it in action.

So, Iv been advised by so many people and so many things.. Because they love me and because the content is TRUE!
Some of the points that I believe affected me much are:

1. Never give up and lose hope. Love wont find u by it self. Do some extra effort or out of normal thing that u do. So i tried the dating apps and opened my eyes while having my coffee at Coffee Bean.

2. U will bump into the kind of guy based on how u live ur life. If ur still living in 'zaman jahiliah' then u will always bump into bastards. So i quit few things and start something, but i still went to have fun with my girls. Then the better guys start coming in, even they didnt last long.. until it is 'his' turn ;)

3. Read and believe the books! Really it guides u! There might be some info that not suited with our culture and religion, but the morale parts matter. I did follow some of the guides like 'think like a man' and respect is the most important thing in relationship. Seriously i never thought respect will play as a main role. But then it did lessen the arguments, the worries and the doubt.

4. Listen to ur girlfriends judgement. They see what u dont wanna see. Trust them.

5. Dont aim tooooooo high. Unless u are supermodel or something. But still, even if u are, it wont mean a thing if u cant cook, dependent, senang cita , have u watched the America next top model? Yes exactly. I think pretty girls have the most flaws.

6. Doa to Allah. I always believe the last part of our prayer is the magical part. I feel that god did answer some of my prayers if we wholeheartedly asked. :)